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Catholic Wedding Readings

Every reading the Church offers for a Catholic wedding, in one place: 9 from the Old Testament, 7 psalms, 14 from the New Testament, 4 Gospel acclamations and 10 Gospels — with the rules that govern how many you pick and which ones count.

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How many readings you choose

A nuptial Mass follows the ordinary shape of the Liturgy of the Word. What is unusual about a wedding is that the couple, not the calendar, chooses what is read.

First reading
One of the 9 Old Testament options — or, in the Easter season, the passage from Revelation.
Responsorial psalm
One of the 7 psalms, sung by the cantor with the congregation answering the refrain.
Second reading
One of the 14 New Testament options. It may be omitted, leaving one reading before the Gospel.
Gospel acclamation
One of the 4 verses, sung with the Alleluia as the Book of the Gospels is carried to the ambo.
Gospel
One of the 10 options, proclaimed by a deacon or a priest.
At least one must speak of marriage
The Church requires that one of the readings you choose speak explicitly of marriage. 14 of the 44 options do, and every one of them carries a gold marker in the lists below — so you can check a shortlist without reading each passage twice.
First reading

Old Testament readings

Nine options, one of which is proclaimed as the first reading — except during the Easter season, when the first reading is taken from Revelation instead.

9 options7 speak of marriage
01
Genesis 1:26-28, 31aSpeaks of marriage
God creates them male and female, in his own image, and blesses them.
02
Genesis 2:18-24Speaks of marriage
"The two of them become one body" — the origin of marriage itself.
03
Genesis 24:48-51, 58-67Speaks of marriage
Rebekah consents and goes with the servant; Isaac takes her, and he loved her.
04
Tobit 7:6-14Speaks of marriage
Sarah is given to Tobiah, and the marriage contract is written out.
05
Tobit 8:4b-8Speaks of marriage
Tobiah and Sarah pray on their wedding night: "Grant that we may grow old together."
06
Proverbs 31:10-13, 19-20, 30-31Speaks of marriage
The woman who fears the Lord is the one to be praised.
07
Song of Songs 2:8-10, 14, 16a; 8:6-7a
"Set me as a seal upon your heart… for love is strong as death."
08
Sirach 26:1-4, 13-16Speaks of marriage
"Like the sun rising in the Lord’s heavens, the beauty of a good wife."
09
Jeremiah 31:31-32a, 33-34a
The new covenant, written on the heart — the pattern every covenant follows.
Between the readings

Responsorial psalms

Seven options, sung or recited by the cantor with the congregation answering. The psalm belongs to the Liturgy of the Word, so it is chosen from this list rather than replaced by a hymn.

7 options1 speak of marriage
01
Psalm 33:12 and 18, 20-21, 22
"The earth is full of the goodness of the Lord."
02
Psalm 34:2-3, 4-5, 6-7, 8-9
"Taste and see the goodness of the Lord."
03
Psalm 103:1-2, 8 and 13, 17-18a
"The Lord is kind and merciful."
04
Psalm 112:1bc-2, 3-4, 5-7a, 7bc-8, 9
"Blessed the man who greatly delights in the Lord’s commands."
05
Psalm 128:1-2, 3, 4-5Speaks of marriage
"Blessed are those who fear the Lord and walk in his ways."
06
Psalm 145:8-9, 10 and 15, 17-18
"The Lord is compassionate toward all his works."
07
Psalm 148:1-2, 3-4, 9-10, 11-13a, 13c-14a
"Let all praise the name of the Lord."
Second reading

New Testament readings

Fourteen options. The last of them, from Revelation, is the one that stands in for the Old Testament reading during the Easter season.

14 options3 speak of marriage
01
Romans 8:31b-35, 37-39
"What will separate us from the love of Christ?"
02
Romans 12:1-2, 9-18
Offer your bodies as a living sacrifice; let love be sincere.
03
Romans 15:1b-3a, 5-7, 13
"Welcome one another, then, as Christ welcomed you."
04
1 Corinthians 6:13c-15a, 17-20
"Your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit."
05
1 Corinthians 12:31—13:8a
"If I do not have love, I gain nothing" — the hymn to charity.
06
Ephesians 4:1-6
"One body and one Spirit… one Lord, one faith, one baptism."
07
Ephesians 5:2a, 21-33Speaks of marriage
"This is a great mystery, but I speak in reference to Christ and the Church."
08
Philippians 4:4-9
"Rejoice in the Lord always… and the God of peace will be with you."
09
Colossians 3:12-17
"Over all these put on love, that is, the bond of perfection."
10
Hebrews 13:1-4a, 5-6bSpeaks of marriage
"Let marriage be held in honor among all."
11
1 Peter 3:1-9Speaks of marriage
Be of one mind, sympathetic, loving toward one another.
12
1 John 3:18-24
"Let us love not in word or speech but in deed and truth."
13
1 John 4:7-12
"God is love."
14
Revelation 19:1, 5-9a
"Blessed are those who have been called to the wedding feast of the Lamb."
Before the Gospel

Gospel acclamations

Four verses, all from the fourth chapter of the First Letter of John, sung with the Alleluia as the Book of the Gospels is carried to the ambo.

4 options0 speak of marriage
01
1 John 4:7b
"Everyone who loves is begotten of God and knows God."
02
1 John 4:8b, 11
"God is love. If God so loved us, we also must love one another."
03
1 John 4:12
"If we love one another, God remains in us and his love is brought to perfection in us."
04
1 John 4:16
"Whoever remains in love, remains in God and God in him."
The Gospel

Gospel readings

Ten options. The Gospel is always proclaimed by a deacon or a priest — the one reading a family member or friend cannot be asked to read.

10 options3 speak of marriage
01
Matthew 5:1-12a
The Beatitudes: "Rejoice and be glad, for your reward will be great in heaven."
02
Matthew 5:13-16
"You are the light of the world."
03
Matthew 7:21, 24-29
The house built on rock, which the storm could not shake.
04
Matthew 19:3-6Speaks of marriage
"What God has joined together, no human being must separate."
05
Matthew 22:35-40
The greatest commandment, and the second like it.
06
Mark 10:6-9Speaks of marriage
"They are no longer two but one flesh."
07
John 2:1-11Speaks of marriage
The wedding at Cana — the first of the signs Jesus worked.
08
John 15:9-12
"Remain in my love."
09
John 15:12-16
"Love one another as I love you."
10
John 17:20-26
"That they may be brought to perfection as one."
Before you decide

The rules that actually constrain the choice

The list is the list

Readings come from the options the Church provides for Matrimony. A poem or a passage from a novel belongs at the reception, or in the booklet as a dedication — not in the Liturgy of the Word.

One must name marriage

At least one chosen reading has to speak explicitly of marriage. That is what the 14 marked options are for; a shortlist made only of the unmarked ones does not satisfy it.

The Gospel is not yours to assign

A deacon or priest proclaims it. The other readings can be given to family and friends, and naming them in the booklet is a courtesy guests notice.

Easter changes the first reading

Marry between Easter and Pentecost and the first reading is taken from Revelation instead of the Old Testament.

The psalm is sung, not swapped

The responsorial psalm belongs to the Liturgy of the Word. It is chosen from the seven above and sung; it is not a slot for a favourite hymn.

Your parish has the last word

Bring your shortlist to the priest or deacon preparing your wedding. Parishes and dioceses differ on readers, on music and on how much may be printed.

Printing them

Getting the readings into your wedding program

Once the selection is settled, the booklet is what carries it to two hundred people who have not seen it before.

The convention is to print each reading’s citation, its opening line, and the name of the person proclaiming it. That is enough for a Catholic guest to follow and enough for anyone else to know what is happening and when to sit. Where a congregation includes many guests who are not Catholic, couples often print the full text of the readings as well — worth asking your parish about, since the approved translation is under copyright and permissions vary.

The responsorial psalm is the one place a booklet earns its keep outright: the congregation is expected to answer, and they can only do that if the refrain is printed in front of them. Print it in bold on its own line, exactly as the cantor will sing it.

Our templates leave a place for all of it — citations, readers, the psalm refrain and the responses — in both forms of the Roman Rite. If you are still deciding what the rest of the booklet should say, the wording guide works through it section by section.

Questions

Questions couples ask

How many readings are there for a Catholic wedding?

The Order of Celebrating Matrimony offers 44 options in all: 9 Old Testament readings, 7 responsorial psalms, 14 New Testament readings, 4 Gospel acclamations and 10 Gospels. A nuptial Mass uses one from each list.

Can we choose a reading that is not on the list?

No. The readings at a Catholic wedding are chosen from the options the Church provides for the celebration of Matrimony. A favourite poem, a passage from a novel or a non-scriptural text can be read at the reception or printed in the booklet as a dedication, but it does not replace a reading in the Liturgy of the Word.

Does one of our readings have to be about marriage?

Yes. At least one of the readings chosen must speak explicitly of marriage. 14 of the options qualify, and they are marked on the page so you can tell at a glance whether your shortlist satisfies the rule.

Who reads at a Catholic wedding?

The first reading, the responsorial psalm and the second reading are normally proclaimed by lay readers — often a sibling, a parent or a close friend. The Gospel is reserved to a deacon or a priest. Naming your readers in the booklet is one of the kindest details you can include.

What changes if we marry during the Easter season?

During Easter the first reading is taken from the Book of Revelation (Revelation 19:1, 5-9a) rather than from the Old Testament. Everything else about the selection is unchanged.

Do the readings go in the wedding program?

Printing the citations is standard, and printing the full text is common where the congregation includes guests who are not Catholic and cannot follow from memory. Either way the booklet should name the readers, so guests know who is going to the ambo and when.

Put your readings in the booklet

Every template has a place for the citations, the readers’ names and the responses your guests will need.

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Free to design and preview. $5.99 when you download the print-ready PDF.

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