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Catholic Wedding Program Wording

What to print on the cover, in the order of service, on the wedding party page and in the closing note — with specimens you can copy and adapt, for a nuptial Mass or a wedding without one.

Page one

The cover

Four things, in this order: what is being celebrated, who is being married, when, and where. Everything else belongs inside.

Nuptial Mass

The Nuptial Mass Uniting
Mary Katherine Doyle
and
James Peter Sullivan
Saturday, the twelfth of June
Two Thousand Twenty-Seven
Church of Saint Agnes · Saint Paul, Minnesota
Dates are traditionally spelled out on the cover and given in figures inside. Both names appear in full, without titles.

Traditional Latin Mass

The Solemn Nuptial Mass
Maria Catherina Doyle
and
Jacobus Petrus Sullivan
In Nomine Patris et Filii et Spiritus Sancti
The Twelfth Day of June, MMXXVII
Church of Saint Agnes
A Latin Mass booklet often carries a Latin invocation on the cover. Keep the names in the form the guests know them by.
The line above the names does the work
“The Nuptial Mass Uniting” tells a guest there will be a Mass; “The Sacrament of Holy Matrimony” tells them there will not. Choose the one that is true, because guests use it to decide whether to expect Communion.
The heart of it

The order of service

This is the page guests actually read during the ceremony. It should be a list of what happens, in sequence, with a name against each item — never a paragraph.

Ordinary Form (Novus Ordo)

Introductory Rites
Prelude
Processional
Greeting · Gloria · Collect
Liturgy of the Word
First Reading · Genesis 2:18–24
Responsorial Psalm · Psalm 128
Second Reading · 1 Corinthians 12:31—13:8a
Gospel Acclamation · Homily
The Order of Matrimony
Questions Before the Consent
The Consent · Blessing of Rings
Universal Prayer
Citations come from the Lectionary options for Matrimony — all of them are listed in the readings guide.

Extraordinary Form (1962)

The Rite of Marriage
Veni Creator Spiritus
The Consent · Blessing and Giving of Rings
The Nuptial Mass
Introit · Deus Israel
Kyrie · Gloria
Epistle · Ephesians 5:22–33
Gradual · Uxor Tua
Gospel · Matthew 19:3–6
Offertory · In Te Speravi Domine
Sanctus · Pater Noster
The Nuptial Blessing
Communion · Ecce Sic Benedicetur
Te Deum Laudamus
In the older form the marriage is celebrated before the Mass begins, and the Propers are fixed. The Latin Mass guide sets out the whole order.

Two conventions make the difference between a program guests follow and one they fold up. First, put the movement headings in small caps and the items beneath them in the reading face, so the eye finds its place after looking away. Second, print the music selections against the moment they happen at, not in a separate list at the back — a guest wondering what the choir is singing will not turn the page to find out.

The full order of both forms, movement by movement, is set out in the liturgical guide.

Naming names

Sacred ministers and the wedding party

Two lists, kept apart. The ministers page is formal and uses titles; the wedding party page is warm and uses roles.

Sacred ministers

Celebrant
The Reverend Michael J. Byrne
Deacon
The Reverend Thomas Reilly
Organist & Cantor
Anne Whitfield · Clare Donnelly
Readers
Elizabeth Doyle · Peter Sullivan
Altar Servers
John Doyle · Henry Sullivan
Clergy take their full style — “The Reverend” for a priest or a deacon, “The Reverend Monsignor”, “The Most Reverend” for a bishop.

Wedding party

Maid of Honour
Sarah Doyle, sister of the bride
Best Man
Daniel Sullivan, brother of the groom
Bridesmaids
Grace Lynch · Emily Ward · Rose Kavanagh
Groomsmen
Patrick Nolan · Andrew Hayes · Luke Brennan
Flower Girl & Ring Bearer
Nora Sullivan · Thomas Doyle
A short relationship after a name — “sister of the bride” — is the detail guests appreciate most and the one most often left out.
Parents of the couple
Listed together on the ministers page or given their own short block. Where a parent has died, name them here and mark them in the memorial rather than omitting them.
Ushers
Named after the groomsmen if they are distinct people; folded into the groomsmen list if they are not.
Musicians
Organist, cantor, soloist, string players and choir, by role. A hired ensemble is credited by its name.
Gift bearers
A nuptial Mass has an offertory procession; naming the bearers is a courtesy and tells them where to look.
For the congregation

Responses, and telling guests what to do

A Catholic wedding usually has guests who are not Catholic. The booklet is what stops them guessing.

A response, set for the page

The Lord be with you.
And with your spirit.
Lift up your hearts.
We lift them up to the Lord.
Let us give thanks to the Lord our God.
It is right and just.
The presider’s line in italic, the people’s answer in the reading face. Guests learn the pattern within two exchanges.

Rubrics that guests can act on

Please stand
Entrance and Procession
Please be seated
First Reading
All who are able may kneel
The Eucharistic Prayer
Short, in italic, in the accent colour, and always immediately above the thing they refer to.
The note about Communion
Most nuptial Mass booklets carry a short paragraph explaining that Communion is received by Catholics in a state of grace, and warmly inviting everyone else to come forward for a blessing with arms crossed, or to remain and pray. Word it as an invitation, not a restriction — it is the single most-read paragraph in the booklet.
The last page

Memorial and thank-you

Two short blocks, and the tone of the whole booklet turns on them.

In loving memory

In Loving Memory
Margaret Doyle
Sean Patrick Sullivan
Whom we hold in our hearts today,
and for whom we ask your prayers.
Names only, no dates. A request for prayers is the Catholic form, and it is what the deceased would have wanted asked.

A word of thanks

With Gratitude
To our parents, who gave us the faith we profess today;
to Father Byrne, who prepared us for this sacrament;
and to all of you, who travelled to pray with us.
Mary and James
Sign it with first names. The formality of the cover has done its work by this page.
Avoid these

What goes wrong most often

Calling it the wrong thing

A wedding with a Mass is a Nuptial Mass; one without is the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony or a Wedding Ceremony. Guests plan their morning around which it is.

Deceased parents in the party list

Naming a late parent among the living reads as an error to everyone who knows. Put them in the memorial and the whole page becomes a kindness.

A wall of unbroken text

The order of service is a list. Set as prose it cannot be followed by someone who has just looked up from the aisle.

Music hidden at the back

Print each selection against the moment it happens at. A separate credits page answers a question nobody is asking at the time.

A page count that is not a multiple of four

Each folded sheet makes four pages. Anything else gets padded with blanks by the printer, usually in the wrong place.

Nobody proofread the names

Have someone from each family read the names aloud. It is the one error that survives into the photographs.

When the wording is settled, the printing guide covers the rest: imposition, paper stock, and the printer settings that decide whether the fold lands where it should.

Questions

Questions couples ask

What should a Catholic wedding program include?

A cover with both names, the date and the church; the order of service; the names of the sacred ministers and the wedding party; the readings and music; the congregation’s responses; and a closing note of thanks. A nuptial Mass booklet adds the text and responses of the Mass itself, so guests can participate rather than watch.

How do you word the cover of a Catholic wedding program?

Convention is a line naming the celebration — "The Nuptial Mass Uniting" or "The Sacrament of Holy Matrimony" — then both names, then the date and the church with its city. Titles and honorifics are usually dropped on the cover and kept for the ministers page.

Whose names go in a Catholic wedding program?

The couple, the celebrant and any concelebrants, the deacon, the servers, the readers, the cantor and musicians, the parents of both, and the wedding party by role — maid of honour, best man, bridesmaids, groomsmen, ushers, ring bearer and flower girl. Deceased relatives are remembered in a separate memorial line rather than in the party list.

Do you print the responses in a Catholic wedding program?

Yes, if you want the congregation to answer. Print the people’s parts in bold and the presider’s parts in regular weight, and mark them "Priest:" and "All:" so guests who are not Catholic know when a line belongs to them.

How do you word a memorial in a wedding program?

A short line under a heading such as "In Loving Memory" naming those who have died, often with the phrase "who are present with us in spirit today" or a request for prayers. Keep it separate from the wedding party list so it reads as a remembrance rather than an omission.

How long should a wedding program be?

A program-only booklet runs four pages. A full nuptial Mass booklet with the order of the Mass, the responses and the music usually runs 8 to 16 pages. Booklet pages come in multiples of four, because each folded sheet makes four of them.

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